Men on the Rebound

Men are problem solvers. They don't feel comfortable sitting around "feeling their feelings."

The time for a man to begin a relationship is when his desire to give is greater than his need to receive.

A man can only sustain attraction for a woman when she is the right woman for him.

It is possible for a man to bury himself so much in his work that he ignores his feelings of loss. He will take on more than he can do and then feel powerless to achieve his goals.

If a past partner demanded too much, and he doesn't deal with his anger, he may begin to require too much from himself. He sets unrealistic and demanding goals that require all of his time and energy.

A man should be careful to set realistic goals for himself. Otherwise he will create enormous pressure to measure up to his own unrealistic standards.

By creating a balance between love and work, a man's chances of finding success and then keeping that success go up dramatically. The foundation of a loving relationship assists a man greatly in being able to accomplish his goals.

When a man works to keep his heart open, he is tending to the basis of his success at work. When he is loved and trusted by his friends and family, the world trusts him as well. A balanced life is like a magnet that will draw in opportunities for greater success.

After a string of failed relationships, some men just give up. They stop trying. They seek the companionship of women, but when the problems begin to come up they just move on. They love women, but they have concluded that they can't live with them. They are willing to get involved, but not interested in getting married.